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My boyfriend of over 2 years suffers from severe depression. Through out our relationship we have never really had major problems in regards to his depression. If it ever got bad it seemed to only last a couple of days and things would be normal again. Although I canada goose do know that before we started dating he would have longer periods of depression. Well, since early September he as been severely depressed making it the longest period of his depression since we have started dating. He has been telling me he feels really bad for me, and doesn think I deserve to go through this. He thinks he is bringing me down with him even though I keep telling him he isn I am very supportive and have always told him I am there for him. It seemed to be getting worse as the weeks went on and tonight he broke up with me. It was the most heartbreaking thing I have ever been through not only because it hurt me to hear him tell me its over, but mainly because I could tell it was so hard for him to do. I have never seen this man shed a single tear in 2 years we have been together, but tonight he was absolutely bawling, kept telling me how much he loves me and how sorry he is, and was holding onto me like it would be the last time he ever held me. But anyways, that happened and I let him go because I thought thats what he wanted, but then less than an hour later he texts me telling me he had not driven home yet and wanted me to come outside to talk. So I did and he told me that he felt he made the biggest mistake of his life, fucked up, didn mean to break up with me but only did it because he felt it was the right thing to do for my sake. So we decided to call off the break up and get back together. However, I am still very confused. I am kind of sitting here like, „what just happened?“ I dont know if this something normal. Do others with depression go through things like this where they dump their gf/bf then almost instantly change their minds? I am not sure what he really wants and what I should do. What would you do in this situation?

I love and care about this man so much and want to be with him, but I am having a hard time understanding where his head is at (and I think he is too) canada goose outlet shop.